"God is at the center of his universe, and when you put yourself there, it only ends in relationship brokenness and personal disappointment." — Paul David Tripp, New Morning Mercies
In an era dominated by likes, shares, and meticulously curated images, it’s easy to become entangled in the web of digital validation. Social media platforms have become arenas where identities are crafted, reputations are built, and self-worth is often measured in likes and followers. These platforms push us to place ourselves at the forefront, encouraging a constant focus on personal image and approval. As Paul David Tripp's quote reminds us, when we position ourselves at the center of our universe, we invite relational and personal turmoil. This misplaced focus ultimately sets us up for a cycle of dissatisfaction and fractured connections.
The validation struggle
Let’s face it: each notification on social media or our phones delivers a fleeting rush of affirmation, making us feel that our thoughts, images, and personas are valued. Even something as simple as a like, love, or laugh in a group text can boost our sense of worth. Social media platforms have redefined how we perceive self-worth, turning personal achievements and even failures into public spectacles. In this cultural moment, the image we project often takes precedence over the authentic life we lead.
What is our focus?
When we place ourselves at the center of our universe, we essentially push God out of His rightful place in our lives. Social media amplifies this tendency by encouraging us to construct and constantly manage our personal universe, complete with a carefully crafted Name, Image, and Likeness. This self-centered focus manifests in various ways: a constant preoccupation with how others perceive us, a pervasive fear of missing out, and a relentless drive to keep up with “The Joneses.” These comparison traps pull us away from genuine connections and contentment, leaving us trapped in a cycle of comparison and superficial validation. This is a blog for myself, a daily reminder to recalibrate and ask the question:
How Do We Navigate This Cultural Moment?
To navigate this cultural moment with integrity, we must first acknowledge a fundamental truth: we are not the center of the universe—God is. Genesis 1:1 establishes this clearly: “In the beginning, God…” This profound declaration sets the framework for understanding our place within the grand design of creation.
The fact is sin drives us to place ourselves at the center, making everything revolve around our desires and plans. We often want our lives to conform to our personal blueprints, to realize our own visions, and to control our outcomes.
Proverbs 16:9 has been on the front of my mind this past year as I have navigated lots of personal and professional changes. It reminds us, “We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.”
Our grasp of God's sovereignty profoundly affects not only how we live but also how we relate to others.
Joel Muddamalle, in his exploration of humility in his new book The Hidden Peace, offers a vital insight: “You may have heard the saying ‘Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.’ This is true, but not complete… there are three parts to it: rightly understanding God, ourselves, and others. And the order matters. It doesn’t start with focusing on ourselves; it starts with focusing on God.”
Muddamalle underscores that true humility starts with a proper understanding of God. When we align our focus with God and His perspective, our own desires, opinions, and concerns naturally take a backseat. This realignment not only grounds us but also enables us to engage with others with greater grace and humility. Navigating our current cultural moment requires this blend of grace and humility. And when we seek validation from our Creator rather than the crowd, we allow His truth to redefine our sense of worth and purpose, diminishing the significance of the ever-shifting digital narrative in our social media feeds.
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